Steve Odierno New Jersey Death and Obituary – The Saint Joseph Regional High School (SJR) community mourns the heartbreaking loss of Steve Odierno ’93, the beloved Director of Marketing, alumnus, father, colleague, and friend. Steve passed away in April 2025, leaving behind a powerful legacy of service, compassion, and unwavering school spirit that touched countless lives within and beyond the SJR family.
Steve was more than just a staff member; he was the embodiment of what it meant to be a Green Knight. As a proud graduate of the class of 1993 and a father to two cherished children—Steven Odierno ’23 and Katherine Odierno ’25 (IHA)—Steve’s life was deeply intertwined with the Saint Joseph Regional community. His contributions to the school extended far beyond the bounds of his professional duties; he was a cornerstone of the school’s culture, a mentor to many, and a friend to all.
In his role as Director of Marketing, Steve brought unmatched passion and energy to his work. He dedicated himself to sharing SJR’s mission and values with the world, often seen capturing joyful moments at school events or highlighting student achievements with heartfelt enthusiasm. His storytelling had a way of connecting people—bridging generations of students, parents, and alumni through shared experiences and cherished memories.
Steve’s colleagues remember him as a gentle presence with a generous spirit. Whether lending a hand during a stressful project or offering words of encouragement in a hallway conversation, Steve consistently radiated warmth and sincerity. He found joy in lifting others up and celebrated even the smallest victories with the same enthusiasm as the grandest accomplishments. His positivity was infectious, and his laugh a familiar comfort across campus.
Beyond his professional accomplishments, Steve was a devoted father who glowed with pride over his children’s successes. He celebrated Steven’s graduation from SJR in 2023 and supported Katherine’s achievements at Immaculate Heart Academy (IHA) with the same pride and devotion. His love for his family was evident in every story he shared and every moment he cherished.
To honor Steve’s extraordinary life, the Saint Joseph Regional community will come together in remembrance through the following services:
- Wake: Thursday, April 24, from 3:00 to 7:00 PM at Vander Plaat Funeral Home in Wyckoff, NJ.
- Funeral Mass: Friday, April 25, at 10:30 AM at St. Elizabeth’s Church in Wyckoff, NJ. Additionally, on Monday, April 28, SJR will begin the school day with a Mass in his memory. Students are respectfully asked to wear a dress shirt and tie as a sign of reverence.
Though Steve Odierno is no longer with us, his spirit will forever remain a part of SJR. His life was a testament to loyalty, compassion, and selfless service—a legacy that will continue to inspire generations to come. The community joins together in prayer for the Odierno family, finding comfort in the many lives Steve so profoundly touched.
May he rest in eternal peace.